Can't Please Everyone

 by Calamity Cate

If you live long enough and listen hard enough, there is always a disgruntled soul among the myriad of satisfied people in one's life.  Some tell you straight up whats wrong, whats off or what you just plain messed up!  Ya love them more for it! Heck, Courage is nothing without conviction! Others prefer to hold on to the resentment, the anger and the upset. Why? Damned if i know....but i do know this; Communication is the stuff that makes up solutions!  Now sit back a spell and think about that statement...Communicaton...talk talk talk about the problem until its all talked out and your sharin' a shot of tequila, a trail ride...a genuine hug!  Stuff....anything, everything and the whole enchilada!  Solutions....finite end to the problems. Wars, divorces, bosses and horses can all be brought to understanding and accord with communication...talk talk talk...mean what you say and then, talk some more! When the parties involved are laughin then the world is a better place and so is the health of all involved!..and if you got to the root, then chances are you won't even recall what the BIG HOOPLA was anyway!  or the significance of it..! 

If the other party is still behavin' like a jack ass then know you tried...even a jack ass responds to communication & kindness. But some folks just ain't got the soul or the brain to figure it out. Still, be kind, be gentle, and let it go!  The best solution in this scenario...Don't continue the negative energy forward.  Zip your lip. When asked what happened simply tell that inquiring mind what your ma told you, if ya can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all....AND THAT,  amigo, says IT ALL!

Remember, there is a war going on, there are mustangs to save and a planet to heal...what do WE have to complain about?  

So say a prayer and let the people you love know you love them!

Final thought: "An optimist sees opportunity in every CALAMITY....a pessimist sees CALAMITY in every opportunity"

Now I ask ya, which are you?

I love you all!

mucho besos!

Calamity